One evening, I was thinking.. people, as in “We” usually talk about negatives and tend to talk about those things/events that made us feel miserable in life. We tend to talk about things that hurt or did hurt us in the past us or things that people did not do rather than things that people did for us. Why is it like this? If you observe a child he will be more happier than sad because he forgets things easily that made him cry. . . When we grow we start remembering things, mostly the ones that changed us in a way. . that made us more strong. The experiences that turned our life upside down are there stored in the memory and we talk about those experiences more often than we talk about good memories or experiences.
There is one friend of mine. He has been such a positive influence in my life that after I started looking at his life it made me feel positive about my own life. He is the person who is always happy *touchwood”. Now when I say he is happy that does not mean everything is perfect in his life, but the way he takes life with such positiveness that it gives me a reason to smile everyday. I remember when he was going through such tough time in his life but he did not give up on that smile on his face. He still talk positive things, his passion, dreams and was still passionate about achieving them even though the time was difficult! He is the person who has never talked negative about anyone or anything. He is just so focused on being happy that he just does not have time to look at the negative things. When I look at him I wonder there are good people in this life who still exists!
That person taught me how to be happy for no reason. He taught me happiness is not situational , but it comes from within.
With this positive thought I want to leave you guys with your positiveness! It’s with you and within you. . .
